I’ve stopped believing that alignment means everyone agrees. Most of the time, it just means everyone thinks they understood the same thing. In product conversations, we love to say, “Let’s get aligned.” It sounds mature. Kinda professional as well. But what we’re really saying is, “Let’s make sure we’re not talking about completely different things.” … Continue reading Alignment sounds nice, but translation works.
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The weight of negative self talk
Negative self talk is sneaky. It slips in quietly, almost unnoticeable, until suddenly it’s running the show. You’re about to try something new and there it is, whispering: “You’re not good enough,” or “People are going to judge you.” And the thing is, it doesn’t just appear out of thin air. It’s built over years. … Continue reading The weight of negative self talk
In the absence of a center
some days i care too much.other days, not at all.i swing between urgency and numbness,between needing to be seenand wanting to disappear. i attach myselfto whatever moves,a reaction, a message,a silence that feels louder than it should.and i call it feeling.i call it being alive. but the truth is,i’m scattered.and i know it. i keep … Continue reading In the absence of a center
On complaining
Complaining might feel good in the moment, but it doesn’t solve anything. The more you complain, the more stuck you become. It’s unproductive, toxic, and drains not just your energy, but also the energy of the people who care enough to listen. Especially those who try to help, only to realize their efforts are being … Continue reading On complaining
The blessing of unchosen paths
I often find myself grateful for the things I’ve gained—the experiences, relationships, and choices that brought joy and fulfillment to my life. But lately, I’ve realized there’s a quieter kind of gratitude worth embracing: being thankful for the roads I didn’t take and those that weren’t meant for me. Those moments of hesitation, the small … Continue reading The blessing of unchosen paths
Akkshaya Varkhedi 