The trap of wanting to be liked

There’s this pattern that shows up at work for so many of us: the craving to be liked. Not just respected for the work, but really liked—seen as smart, capable, and worth celebrating. And the moment someone seems curt or doesn’t give that signal, the mind runs wild. “Do they think I’m not good enough? … Continue reading The trap of wanting to be liked →

Why the best feedback doesn’t feel good at first

We all love getting positive feedback. The kind that says our work matters and that we're making a difference. And let's be honest, sometimes, that's all we want. But there's another kind of feedback. The kind that shakes you up and makes you pause and think, "Wait, but I thought I was already good at … Continue reading Why the best feedback doesn’t feel good at first →

The other side of the AI wave: What I discovered

Source: Pinterest When the wave of AI hit the internet, I was largely unaware of it. I was preoccupied with other things and dismissed it as just another hype cycle in the tech world. A few months after paying close attention, I realized what I had overlooked. The realization? AI's transformative potential AI can not … Continue reading The other side of the AI wave: What I discovered →

The blessing of unchosen paths

I often find myself grateful for the things I’ve gained—the experiences, relationships, and choices that brought joy and fulfillment to my life. But lately, I’ve realized there’s a quieter kind of gratitude worth embracing: being thankful for the roads I didn’t take and those that weren’t meant for me. Those moments of hesitation, the small … Continue reading The blessing of unchosen paths →